Power is complicated.
Being powerful is also complicated.
You didn't plan to be this way, but somehow you keep ending up in charge of things.
Or you DID plan to be in charge, but now you're not sure you're doing it well, and you keep getting feedback that you're "too much" or "too intense" or "too pushy".
Dialing it back doesn't work.
Neither does pissing people off.
Now what?